The existing code was overly complicated by trying to track indices in
the `connections` vector, which complication happening because things
get removed from `connections` requiring all the internal index values
to be updated. So we ended up with a connection ID inside the
ConnectionID object, plus a map of those connection IDs to the
`connections` index, and need a map back from indices to ConnectionIDs.
Though this seems to work usually, I recently noticed an
oxen-storage-server sending oxend requests on the wrong connection and
so I suspect there is some rare edge cases here where a failed
connection index might not be updated properly.
This PR simplifies the whole thing by making getting rid of connection
ids entirely and keeping the connections in a map (with connection ids
that never change). This might end up being a little less efficient
than the vector, but it's unlikely to matter and the added complexity
isn't worth it.
This commit adds support for listening on new ports after startup. This
will make things easier in storage server, in particular, where we want
to delay listening on public ports until we have an established
connection and initial block status update from oxend.
Jason Rhinelander